Showing posts with label Gabby. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gabby. Show all posts

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Exciting and Promising News for Gabby Girl!


I wanted to share with you a powerful appointment that we had for Gabby on Thursday.
For a little bit of history… Gabby was diagnosed with Apraxia when she was much younger. She also has Celiac Disease – an allergy to gluten. 
Gabby’s speech seems to be coming more and more less clear. I have a hard time understating what she says sometimes, when I used to be the one person that understood everything she said.  Once we got her hearing issues sorted out (she gets yeast infections in her ears that causes blockage and a conductive hearing loss) I knew there was something more to her unclear speech.
Renee Roy Hill is a speech and language pathologist with 11 years of professional experience and is the owner of Crossroads Therapy Clinic in Texas. She provides therapeutic assessments and program planning for adults and children with oral-motor/oral-placement, feeding and motor speech deficits. Renee is a lecturer for professional enhancement courses as part of TalkTools Therapy® / ITI’s speakers bureau, is the author of the TalkTools Therapy® Apraxia Kit and is co-author of the Ice Sticks Program. She presents one and two-day courses on Oral-Placement Therapy techniques, Apraxia and Assessment and Program Plan Development.  She also conducts off-site evaluations and provides parent/home interventionist training seminars to implement home-based therapy programs.
She was in town this week to lecture for SASHA on Friday. DSIA paid her hotel to come early two extra days, allowing families to make appointments with her for evaluations or program follow up appointments (If they had previous evaluations by her or Sarah Rosenfeld Johnson). Our family decided to make an appointment with her. 
Renee evaluated her and found out so many things about Gabby that we never could “pinpoint” or figure out and I would like to share.
Gabby is super hypo sensitive. Renee was able to put a toothette very far down the back of her throat without Gabby gagging. Gabby has a left weak cheek and strong right cheek. And a strong left jaw and weak right jaw.
Renee observed Gabby eating. She chews with her mouth closed, but only because we have told her to. She actually does not have enough strength to chew properly with her mouth closed. When eating, Gabby moves her mouth up and down, but her food stays in the center of her mouth and never gets chewed. Then Gabby requires a big gulp to get the food down – because she has such weak muscles. So, Gabby is swallowing big gulps of air and whole pieces of food. No wonder her tummy hurts all the time!
Gabby has big mouth movements and small mouth movements… but nothing in between. And these are the movements you need for good, refined speech.
I always assumed Gabby’s aversion to certain foods is because it is typically gluten based food she avoids – crackers, cereals, cookies, chips, cakes, etc.… Renee assured me that Gabby avoids those foods because she knows she can’t chew them and she can’t swallow them. She knows she would choke. Because she has such weak muscles and is so hypo sensitive, not only would she choke, but also she doesn’t have the gag reflux to get food back up.
Gabby then read a book to Renee. Renee closed the book, looked at me and said Gabby does NOT have apraxia.  Most of you know I could care less about diagnoses/labels, just tell me what I need to do to help her.
Renee did an amazing job of explaining how severe Gabby’s muscle weakness is, yet, reassuring us that there is no reason that Gabby cannot have clear speech.  Gabby is super smart and has found many ways to overcompensate for her weakness.
Gabby’s ST from school was there for the appointment as well. While observing the assessment she stated, “Well, at some point, Gabby will only reach a certain level, right?”
Renee reassured us that NO ONE levels out…. Keep strengthening your muscles… You don’t stop going to the gym once you’ve reached your ideal weight.
I am really pleased with her treatment plan. 15 minutes a day, seven days a week of exercises for her mouth, jaw, etc.…. and one feeding exercise… 6 bites reminding Gabby to chew with back teeth. After that, Gabby is done with “therapy” Let her eat at mealtimes the way she wants to – eating needs to be enjoyable and in time, the correct eating with transfer over to mealtimes.
When I got home, I thanked Andy for the sacrifice (financially) our family made for this appointment and he said something to me I will never forget. He said “We did not do this just for Gabby. We did this for our whole family. Gabby deserves to be heard and we deserve to hear her”  Many of the reasons I love him so. 
I am excited about these changes. I am excited to hear all Gabby has to say. I am excited to have a conversation with her on the phone and not have to ask what she said. I am excited to see her blossom into the next stage of her life, as she is able to more openly communicate with her family and friends.
Gabby

Friday, November 11, 2011

Gabby Girl is 10!


I can’t believe ten years has gone by since I first saw, heard, smelled and loved my daughter. I always get so emotional around Birthdays.  And this was no different.
In the days leading up to birthdays, I always find myself reliving “what I was doing however many years ago”.  Was I at the hospital? Had I started pushing? We count down to the time each child was born to make it official.
And then with Gabby’s, I relieve the events after her birth. The room filling with doctors, The Doctor telling me she had Down syndrome, and his offer of putting her in an institution. It truly felt like an out of body experience. Like I was seeing it all happen from afar, yet it was painfully happening so close. I remember my dear friends Melinda Lewis and Cindy Abercrombie showing up, well after visiting hours – daring the nurses to try and kick them out, to comfort me and support me. It was then that when they looked into my eyes and said, “You can do this”, that I knew I could. We spent four long days in the hospital. I could not wait to get my beautiful daughter home.
Once home, everything was surreal with Gabby. I was so in love with this amazing person. She slept cuddled in my arms, on our sides, facing each other, nose to nose. I wanted to breath her in. We spent many, many hours on the couch, feeding. I loved waking up early with her, only to take a long morning nap with her. She was mesmerizing.
And she still is. There is something so real, so honest, so true about Gabby. I think she loves people they way they are meant to be loved, without judgment. Her emotions are real and she’s wonderfully honest. She is selfless, getting more excited for others than herself. She’s such a hard worker, working harder than any of her friends to do the same thing they do, and all while smiling. 
She taught me everything I know about being a mother - how to love my children unconditionally and to cherish every unique, different, quirky, crazy, lovely thing about each of them. How to really live by the belief that everyone is different - and that is great and wonderful.
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Gabby, sweathearted and loving
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Lucy,  emotional and sensitive
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Dylan, protective and loyal
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Trevor, intuitive and sensitive
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Cody, fearless and funny
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Evey, silly and....is "princess -like" a word?
I am so beyond words lucky that Gabby chose me to me her mother. I am eternally gratefully for all that she has taught me about life and love. She is my biggest inspiration. 
Happy Birthday our Beautiful Gabby Girl! 
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Gabby is in love with the color purple, because it is Justin Bieber's favorite color. 
Thank you Auntie Wendy for the beautiful cake. 
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Her Justin Bieber Barbie. It sings.

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Dylan and Lucy showing Gabby the "Justin Bieber stage",  complete with a Justin and Gabby lego person, that they made for her. 
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Love